Why do Men bothered much bout SEX
I have a male friend, he's turning thirty three this year, acting like an insane person because of he never ever experience sex since birth.
And now hes getting older, and his parents plan an arrange wedding six months from now, he's acting very weird and very eager to experience sex before marriage. Well, I told him you can pay someone to do it with you or flirt someone who loves dating and sex with him after dating. But he's very afraid to do so and because I he's very desparate to do so, he never realized that he's acting like a maniac and worst lke a psychopat! grrr....
Now he's friend set him for a date with this lady and told him that she's a good companion. I didnt realized until he told me that he's thinking that he will have an opportunity to sex with this girl. (hey I was shocked with that just because of "she's a good companion"). And worst he really showed his intention to have sex with this girl without asking the girl nor any signs that the girl like to be with him in bed. Ended up the girl got mad at him. I pity him but I can only help him by listening and giving him pieces of advice. I sent him an email :
Anyways, bout your problem, You should not ask the girl to go out again with you just to ask apology to her in person. Better talk to her on the phone and sincerely apologize telling her for being sorry for the wrong notion of her being a "good companion." Still you respect her a lot and hoping she will see your good traits as a friend and she will trust you again.
But I think its not a problem, i dunno why you are very bothered for not experiencing sex. Its just in the mind. There are lot of things you can do better than sex. Sex will just come in the right place, right person, and right attitude. Sex do not measure your being a macho or being a hunk, its not just a game to play, It is a gift from God to express love and not just simply a plain reason for lust and physical satisfaction.
Hey its not bad if you will just do it alone whenever your body needs it. My dear friend, its all in the mind, you should be aware of controlling your needs and wants. In all aspects. Self dicipline is something, specially dealing with sexual desires. Cheer up! :) Its not the end of your life if you havent experience sex before marriage even you are a MAN. ok :)
I know sex is good but still it is not only sex that controls your life!. :-)
I hope I can help him.
And now hes getting older, and his parents plan an arrange wedding six months from now, he's acting very weird and very eager to experience sex before marriage. Well, I told him you can pay someone to do it with you or flirt someone who loves dating and sex with him after dating. But he's very afraid to do so and because I he's very desparate to do so, he never realized that he's acting like a maniac and worst lke a psychopat! grrr....
Now he's friend set him for a date with this lady and told him that she's a good companion. I didnt realized until he told me that he's thinking that he will have an opportunity to sex with this girl. (hey I was shocked with that just because of "she's a good companion"). And worst he really showed his intention to have sex with this girl without asking the girl nor any signs that the girl like to be with him in bed. Ended up the girl got mad at him. I pity him but I can only help him by listening and giving him pieces of advice. I sent him an email :
Anyways, bout your problem, You should not ask the girl to go out again with you just to ask apology to her in person. Better talk to her on the phone and sincerely apologize telling her for being sorry for the wrong notion of her being a "good companion." Still you respect her a lot and hoping she will see your good traits as a friend and she will trust you again.
But I think its not a problem, i dunno why you are very bothered for not experiencing sex. Its just in the mind. There are lot of things you can do better than sex. Sex will just come in the right place, right person, and right attitude. Sex do not measure your being a macho or being a hunk, its not just a game to play, It is a gift from God to express love and not just simply a plain reason for lust and physical satisfaction.
Hey its not bad if you will just do it alone whenever your body needs it. My dear friend, its all in the mind, you should be aware of controlling your needs and wants. In all aspects. Self dicipline is something, specially dealing with sexual desires. Cheer up! :) Its not the end of your life if you havent experience sex before marriage even you are a MAN. ok :)
I know sex is good but still it is not only sex that controls your life!. :-)
I hope I can help him.
posted by CHICAY at 1:15 PM
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Hehehe i hope the reader can understand this. I dunno how to relay the story in writing. :)
Cay,
I can understand how you must have felt when i told u about this incident. I realise that i have all the instincts of a pscho/maniac because of my desperation to have sex before my marriage.
But as you rightly said, i dont have the guts to go out with a prostitute nor have a date with a girl and let it mature into sex (with the girl willing)
All i was interested in was to satisfy my lust and to prove to myself that i am good in bed.
My god, i would have ended up spoiling that girl physically and mentally (whom i had taken out on that day). I was so desperate that i behaved so badly to her without even asking her about her intentions. I can realise how big a blunder i was about to make. I thank god sincerely that my intentions did not happen that day, otherwise my conscience and my guilt would have killed me forever after that.
I did tell my sincere apologies to that girl after a couple of days but still that bitter experience will always stay in her mind forever.
I thank you for explaining things to me and making me realise my mistake. I hope i will be a wiser man after this.
Mady
The story is good. Kaya lang review mo iha ang English usage mo at masyadong maraming mali. Barok ang dating. Constructive criticism lang naman. I hope you take it that way. Good luck. - Imelda
i am aware imelda, thanks for the comment :)
i am aware imelda, thanks for the comment :)
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